Remember back in the day, getting excited about an upcoming date? The anticipation of the evening? Then, all the fun had on the actual date?
Now, think about how wonderful it was when you and your spouse were dating. Wasn’t it awesome?
Then why do so many of us stop dating each other once we get married?
Dating your significant other is so very important to maintaining a healthy marriage. Keep reading to see my top five tips for dating your spouse.
Date planning requires planning ahead. By planning ahead, you’re planning for success. Being prepared increases your chances of your spouse enjoying the date because we can all tell when things are put together slapdash.
Take their interests into consideration when planning your dates. Humans are selfish by nature. I get it, really I do. But that doesn’t mean you should be that way when planning your dates. You’ll want to make sure you both have a good time, so don’t forget about what they enjoy doing
Romance is great, but not always necessary. OK, I love romance as much as the next gal, and romantic dates are really, really nice But, I also really enjoy going on dates that aren’t stereotypically romantic.
Do it on a regular basis. So you’ve planned and executed the perfect date… congratulations! Now do it again next week, or the week after. Consistency is key, in a aspects of life – even marriage.
Ladies can (and should) plan dates too! This isn’t the “olden days,” loves. It shouldn’t be left solely up to the male to plan dates. Show him how much you care by planning a date that’ll knock his socks off.